11.17.2009

Colleen's Baby Shower

On Sunday we had a baby shower for my sweet friend Colleen. It was a beautiful day (a bit warm for mid-November: 77 degrees!) and lots of women showed up to support Colleen and shower her with gifts. Here are a few pictures:

The hostesses with the mommy-to-be!

The awesome cake!

Colleen with her mom and mother-in-law.






We can't wait to meet Finn - ETA Christmas 2009!

11.11.2009

Some things I'm excited about:

1. Our week of vacation coming up. Matt and I are off from the 21st - 28th of November, and I cannot wait. It looks like we'll be going up to Lake Keowee for a few days, and then back to Greenville for Thanksgiving.

2. My new job! That's correct, I will be leaving the Make-A-Wish Foundation to work as a marketing director for a new Chick-fil-A store that is opening up in West Ashley. I'm really excited for this opportunity

3. Colleen's baby shower. I'm helping to throw a baby shower for my good friend Colleen on Sunday. I'm really looking forward to loving on her and sweet baby Finn!

4. NEW MOON. I'm obsessed. I CANNOT WAIT FOR THIS MOVIE TO COME OUT!!!!

5. Making my Christmas list. Yes, I know, most people stop making a Christmas list when they are 7, but I still make one every year. How else will people know what I want? Some items that will make the list this year include a Dyson vacuum, a dutch oven, and a life sized cut out of Edward Cullen. (Just kidding. But not really.)

11.05.2009

Reasons why I love my husband

1. He cannot keep a secret.

Allyn: "Hey, what took you so long to get home? I thought you were on your way when you called earlier."

Matt: (Looking guilty) "Ummmm...."

Allyn: "Weren't you on the way home when you called me? Did you stop somewhere on the way home?"

Matt: "Ummm...I'll tell you in a month."

Allyn: (Not suspicious at all...) "Okay......."

A few minutes later....

Matt: "I'm excited about your Christmas present! I know exactly what I'm getting you, and you'll never figure it out."

Allyn: "Uh, is that what you were doing this afternoon?"

Matt: (Blank stare)

Allyn: "I bet I know what you're getting me."

Matt: "What?! Guess!"

Allyn: "No way. You're terrible at keeping secrets and if I'm right you're totally going to give it away. I like to be surprised."

Matt: (Giddy with excitement) "Come on!! Just guess. I won't give it away, I promise. I'll say 'fried pickles' no matter what you say, that way I won't give anything away."

Allyn: "Ok. But I'm closing my eyes so I can't see your facial expression, because that will give it away. I think you're getting me a bike."

Matt: Long pause........... "Sweetie! You're so good at guessing!!!"

11.04.2009

Galatians

I freaking love Tim Keller's study on the book of Galatians. This will be my second time going through this particular study, the first being roughly 3 years ago. It was revolutionary for me. Here's why:

"The gospel shows us that our spiritual problem lies not only in failing to obey God, but also in relying on our obedience to make us fully acceptable to God, ourselves and others. Every kind of character flaw comes from this natural impulse to be our own savior through our performance and achievement."

Guilty. I don't rely on my obedience in the sense that I think I am earning points or favor with God by going to church, or serving at a soup kitchen, or going on youth group mission trips. My struggle is more in the area of "relational obedience." Going to church is definitely a part of that, as are being consistent and purposeful with my time in the word and in prayer. Of course I fail at this daily, so I usually feel that I'm not doing a good enough job. It's a sneaky form of works righteousness. I love Martin Luther's explanation of Christian, or "passive" righteousness in his preface to Galatians:

"Yet there is another righteousness, far above the others, which Paul calls 'the righteousness of faith' - Christian righteousness. God imputes it to us apart from our works - in other words, it is a passive righteousness, as the others are active. For we do nothing for it, and we give nothing for it. We only receive it."

That is such a foreign concept in a society where you have to earn everything you have. And not just physical things, like your house or your car. We also have to earn trust, respect, etc.

This is what I constantly fall into:

"We become obsessed with our active righteousness and are terrified by its imperfections. But the real evil is that we trust our own power to be righteous and will not lift up our eyes to see what Christ has done for us...So the troubled conscience has no cure for its desperation and feeling of unworthiness unless it takes hold of the forgiveness of sins by grace, offered free of charge in Jesus Christ, which is this passive or Christian righteousness..."

Keller asks how people today "add to the gospel" in ways that diminish it's power. Paul says that to "change the gospel the tiniest bit is to lose it so completely that the new teaching has no right to be called a 'gospel'". Overall, he condemns any teaching that is not based on the fact that we are too sinful to contribute to our salvation, therefore, we are saved by belief in Jesus' work (the grace of Christ) plus nothing else.

In describing 3 current views that deny this truth, this one in particular sticks out to me:

"In some churches, it is implicitly or explicitly taught that you are saved through your 'surrender' to Christ plus right beliefs and behavior. People are challenged to 'give your life to Jesus' and/or to 'ask him into your life.' This sounds very biblical, but it still can reject the grace-first principle fairly easily. Most people think that it means that we are saved by a strong belief and trust in and love for God, along with a life committed to him. Therefore, they feel they must begin by generating a high degree of spiritual sorrow, hunger, and love in order to get Christ's presence. Then they must somehow maintain this if they are going to 'stay saved'".

I don't think I was ever taught this, but somehow this is what I ended up believing. I didn't think that I could lose my salvation, but I always felt, and often still feel that if I'm not maintaining this high degree of spiritual sorrow, hunger, and love, that I am sliding backwards. But Keller says "it is not the level but the object of our faith that saves us." That is HUGE. And I really need to grasp that, in my head and in my heart.

Halloween

Matt and I made a last minute decision to head up to Greenville last weekend for Halloween. Some friends of ours were having a Halloween party that we weren't able to attend last year, so we were excited to make it this time around.

My original costume idea (which I still think is great) was to go dressed as Jared Fogle, with Matt as a Subway Sandwich Artist.


A few hours before the party I started having doubts. The pictures from the previous year showed girls dressed as cats, bumblebees, pumpkins....none of them showed up looking like Androgynous Pat.

So - we decided to go as backpackers instead. I know. Very original. But, it was free. Here are a few pictures from the party:



Matt with Jonathan, our host. It was hard not to burst out into Edelweiss every time he rounded the corner. True story: 3 people at the party were Austrians, who came dressed as cowboys. The hosts (American) dressed as Austrians. Funny stuff.

Bonnie, the hostess, with Lauren.

And the grand finale - Matt's break dance routine.